How to Make a Man Miss You – 7 New Steps that Always Work


In this video you will learn how to make
a man miss you – seven new and updated tips that always work! Don’t go anywhere
because we’re starting right now. Hi everyone I’m Dr. Antonio Borrello and I’m
a psychologist and a relationship coach. This channel is all about helping you
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leaving a comment okay on to the tips for making any man miss you do you feel
like your man has become distant are you worried that he’s not calling or texting
as much or that he doesn’t make plans to see you like he did before do you want
him to think about you and miss you more well these 7 tips will certainly get his
attention and make him yearn for you and miss you oh and they work best when you
do them in this order number one stop talking about missing him okay this one
is difficult to do but absolutely essential let me explain
see when you notice that your man isn’t calling or texting or making plans as
much as he used to it’s natural to become worried and
concerned about why he’s changed so you pay extra attention to what he’s doing
and eventually you bring it up to him so you talk to him and you tell him that
you’ve noticed a change in him and you ask him what’s wrong maybe he tells you
everything is okay he’s just very busy or he tells you that
you’re too sensitive stop worrying about it
or maybe he denies it but if you’re like most people you can’t just forget about
it instead you start paying extra attention to everything he does looking
for more confirmation of the way you’re feeling and without a doubt you find
example after example of how things have changed and it makes you feel worse and
even more insecure and despite all the conversations nothing changes actually
maybe they get worse and then you continue to complain it has this
opposite effect things just get more difficult between you two it’s like he
sees you as the one who is always complaining and nagging so step one is
you must not bring this topic up again at least not yet
I know it’s not easy to do but if you continue to bring it up you will
sabotage your chances of turning things around
instead after you do these steps he’s going to be the one missing you and he
will bring it up so despite how you’re feeling you must not let him know that
you’re upset or sad or worried number two
stop initiating communications if you’re in this situation I would imagine that
you’ve been the one reaching out to start conversations by texting or
calling him but you have to stop being the one who is always reaching out first
obviously this isn’t easy to do because you want to be connected and
communicating but if you want a man to really miss you you must pull away so do
not initiate calls or text to him notice I didn’t say ignore him or stop
communicating I’m saying stop being the one that’s always looking for him and
starting communication you’re not the one who’s going to be starting the day
with a good morning call or text instead let him do it eventually he will
recognize the difference and wonder why you’ve suddenly gone silent on him let
him feel a little down and realize that he was happier when things were
different your silence will speak volumes and he will usually initiate
contact again pretty quickly oh and make him wait before you return his calls and
texts I understand the urge to respond back immediately especially if you’ve
been waiting to hear from him for a while but taking some time before
responding to his contact sends the message that you are busy and not just
sitting by your phone waiting for him to reach out have patience and take your
time before responding doing so will certainly increase his yearning for you
number three give him something to miss I know this sounds funny but when you’re
worried that something is wrong or that he has changed it has an impact on all
of your interactions with him it impacts your conversations your attitude your
energy in general he will feel your disappointment and frustration and the
time that you’re together will feel much heavier and certainly not fun and this
is the opposite of what you want him to feel so you must figure out how to
completely hide that disappointment and be that happy and confident person that
he wants to be with all these tips are rooted in being the
best version of yourself they’re designed to help him recognize your
value and to remember the person he fell in love with so you have to rock his
world in a way that no one else can and leave him wanting more leave him
creating more and the only person that can satisfy that craving and that need
is you so you must create that dynamic that feeling that he can’t get anywhere
else every time he thinks of you he’s going to be thinking about the fun
things he’s going to associate you with everything fun not once but every time
light fun easygoing and confident not disappointed frustrated or insecure
about where things are going number four prioritize your life and
start saying no in other words don’t always be available for him by always
saying yes when he calls and ask you out especially if he’s calling with short
notice saying no to his request for plans sends
him the message that you have other engagements or commitments that are
taking priority at least at this time when he’s asking it also forces him to
recognize your independence and that you’re not just sitting by the phone
waiting for his call remember one of the most important things that men find
attractive in women is independence he’s got to know how full and complete your
life is and if he becomes part of it it’s because you want him to be part of
it not because you need him to be part of it
so make sure that you are keeping up with the life you had prior to meeting
him be yourself and make yourself a priority making keep plans with your
girlfriends and keep your schedule busy this goes a long way towards helping him
to see you as a high-value woman with an exciting life and when you do that
he is going to want to be part of that and when he isn’t he’s going to feel
that too so when he calls last minute to make
plans oops sorry I have plans this will make him prioritize and plan his time
with you he will also begin to recognize that he does not get the privilege of
calling you and asking you to go out when he feels the whim he has to earn
back that high priority status so make other plans and he will start to
remember how you used to be available for him when he prioritized a
relationship oh and I’m not suggesting that you play games and hide me
the phone go out with your friends and have fun again away from your man do
something for you take up a new hobby or do something that you enjoy remember
being unavailable some of the time is going to make you feel better while
driving him a little crazy number 5 be a little bit mysterious that
means you don’t have to share every detail of your daily activities with him
I’m not encouraging you to keep secrets or lie about anything just don’t explain
every little thing that you’re doing unless he asks do you want him to wonder
and to develop intrigue so share bits and pieces of your life slowly and make
him earn your trust again when you’re going up to dinner with your parents
tell him you’re going up to dinner you don’t have to tell him who you’re going
out with unless he asks and when you have plans with friends and he asks you
on a date last minute tell him you have plans with friends and don’t break your
plans for his last minute request this will force him to recognize that your
time is valuable and he needs to put you first not a last minute call because he
has nothing else to do number 6 have to talk when the time is right this is
super important if you’ve done these first steps correctly your boyfriend
will definitely recognize a change in will probably become concerned and might
even object to these changes and that’s a good thing
you want him to recognize and remember that he has an amazing woman if he
doesn’t notice the changes that’s when you should be concerned so you aren’t
the one who should bring up this topic when he notices your changes he’s either
going to step up his game and become more loving and more like he used to be
or he’s going to bring up what he’s noticed
and want to have a conversation about it and that’s perfect so be clear and
honest about your expectations for the relationship and while it may be
tempting to adjust your wants and needs to accommodate his this is absolutely
something that you cannot do if you’re seeking a long-term relationship so be
honest with yourself and with him number 7
be willing to walk away you must be willing to walk away from someone and
something if it isn’t working you can’t lie to yourself or bargain
with yourself that although he isn’t really showing you the love and
affection that you expect he will change or things will get better
believe they won’t and if anything they will
only get worse look people change when they absolutely want to or absolutely
have to that’s why he must know that he’s got to change or he’s going to lose
you that’s not something you need to tell him it needs to be demonstrated in
your behavior he needs to feel that you aren’t willing to settle that you aren’t
going to tolerate behaviors or actions of his that you don’t agree with so he
has to be afraid that he will lose you if he doesn’t step up his game and he
will only experience this if he knows that you’re willing and able to walk
away from something that isn’t right for you but still I know many of you will be
worried about doing these tips you were worried that he will become upset or
that he will lose interest all of them feel risky you’re fearing the worst
thing that could happen that he will become less interested or he will forget
about you but I can promise you this if he loves you if he values you doing
these things will wake him up and he will remember and appreciate what he has
so as I’ve said in other videos the most important thing that you can do to
increase the quality of your relationship is to overcome your fear of
being rejected overcome your fear of the relationship ending and in order to do
so you must adopt a belief that if it’s meant to happen it will if you’re not
compatible it’s not going to work out in the long run anyway and that reminds me
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100 Replies to “How to Make a Man Miss You – 7 New Steps that Always Work”

  1. Congratulations to +Kim Buyers @kim Buyers for winning one of the two Amazon gift cards. +Kim Buyers please see my response to your comment for instructions.

  2. Am in really need of your advice the man I wanted to marry asked his parents for our marriage but his parents denied . so as they denied he's not doing any contact after this with me we had 2.5 year relationship . we had planned everything for our marriage. As am 23 and he's also of 23 .

  3. What if we met only twice, texting for 2 weeks, and really i want to know him more but i think he lost his interest already.

  4. Once a player always a player I'm the one getting hurt not him if he really cared I would be treated different talk is cheap such a good actor

  5. We are living in different cities. I have stopped sending messages and do not call him unless it's important, which is not often at all. Yet, he rarely calls or messages. He knows l am an amazing woman, l am willing to walk away.

  6. Great tips sir 🥰😘. I tried it and really worked for me. Thank you so much. I started to love myself after watching ur video ♥️🤘🏽✌🏼☮️

  7. I love and absolutely agree everything that u said … your great … thank you for sharing us your wisdom…keep it up 😊😊

  8. How can i give more LDR relation ship great were't not yet meet in personal only video calls in two years how i know he come to meet me in real im from Philipines hes in Canada id really loves to be spend him together. Thank you

  9. What do I do we live together and I wanna do the steps ? And he does not allow me to be alone long etc and we do things at his discretion?

  10. When we stop initiating, he will initiate more. Other than waiting to respond to texts messages from him, what else should we be doing as far as communication? Do I ignore some of his messages?

  11. I'm going to try this. So do not initiate any calls until he reaches out first, correct? I haven't got anything to lose by trying it. 🤷🏾‍♀️ Its just the fear of taking the risk. But oh well, here goes!

  12. yeah guys play games way too much. my ex i don't speak to him. not putting no pressure and now he is ringing my phone off lol what an idiot

  13. I would try it but we aren't talking as is he had said previously that he wasnt afraid of losing me because I've said it before in previous arguments. We have kids together and we were together 6 years. What do I do? I need attention, encouragement, love. Only get from my kuds but I want it from another different feeling being wanted etc. I feel like it is what it is and move on if it's meant to be it will be

  14. Ok so this story is gonna sound screwed up but I need advice.
    So when I was a freshman in high school I met this really nice guy who turned out to be my best friend (let’s call him mike) Towards the end of the school year I found out he liked me but I didn’t feel the same way seeing as he knew I liked someone else and that we were best friends. I avoided him because I felt so awkward and so weird when I found out. I didn’t avoid him completely, it was just enough to notice that there was something wrong. When sophomore year came he seemed a little more distant. I think it was because I didn’t return his feelings. And also the fact that I avoided him and was a total douche to him. The fourth month of school went by and my boyfriend decided he didn’t want to attend that school anymore and so we ended it. (That’s a story for another time). I grew to feel kinda lonely and sad but mike was still there for me. He didn’t really leave my side at all. We were still best friends. I started to feel super depressed and didnt really talk to anyone bout my feelings except him. One day we were texting and he told me he felt jealous when I would talk to other guys. I asked him “why? Lol” and he responded, and I quote, “I don’t know I think it’s because I love you”. My heart stopped I didn’t really know how to respond. I couldn’t believe he was still crushing on me since last year let alone had fallen in love with me. I responded with the worst thing ever “oh… really?”. I didn’t know how to handle the situation seeing as my feelings were all screwed up. The next few days I went on thinking about him and everything I’ve done to hurt him. “How could be love me… I hurt him so much”. That’s when I realized. It’s because he knows me. None of the guys I’ve liked ever truly knew me. Mike knows me in more ways than one and if I had to choose someone to go to the moon with, it would be him. He knows my heart. It was on a late Friday night that we were chatting on the phone and he was talking about how great his neighborhood is (it’s an inside joke) and that’s when I said it “I LOVE YOU!”. He didn’t say anything for the next 30 seconds he just laughed. I could tell he was blushing. After we hung up, I just thought to myself “I just made my future”. We went on being a thing for the rest of sophomore year and then summer came. We were invited to a party at this girls house (we can call her Jane) Jane and mike were initially close to begin with and idk I guess I was jealous that Jane has never messed things up. The day after the party that’s when the jealousy got to me. He called me and started talking bout her and her parents. That’s when I screwed up and said “I don’t care! Everything u talk about is boring!”. I couldn’t believe what I just did. I was such a bitch to him for no reason and I ruined my future. He then said “oh sorry you feel that way…” then he just hung up. We didn’t talk for the rest of the summer. Junior year came and… he wouldn’t even look at me… I was heartbroken but not as much as his heart was. He didn’t say anything to me and still finds it hard to even talk to me. I want to be with him Ik that now but it’s hard when he doesn’t love you anymore. This is the worst pain I’ve felt in a long time and idk what to do. It’s awkward too. I screwed up and I wanna fix it.
    Any advice?

  15. Im a latina and just started talking with a white guy about 2 months ago, and we only went out 2 times for dinner becouse I have my kids every other weekends and half of the week .At the beggining he used to eply my text messages right away, but now I can see he does not even read it till next day! But he confuse me becouse he call me without reading my mmsgs. And he call me evreryother night for sure at nigh time, and also on weekends he call me sat night and sunday during the day or night and we talk for 2 hours or more. I do not know if he is interested on me or not???? One of my friend who was the person who introduce him to me, talked to him abput how things goes with me and he told him that he likes me but he need to get to know me more and she told him that to get to know someone he hast spend more time with that person and he says oh I just want to take my time . He was married a women who left him for another guy tgen he meet other women who also end up.pregnant from.another guy…I think he maigh be be too scare of women????

  16. Why would a man refuse to break up even when I have given him many outs? It doesn't make any sense. How lazy can a boy be? After what he said to me last night about how he wants things, I cant find him attractive anymore. Too sexually deviant for me. Lacks consistency in day to day discussions about topics and come up time and time again. He seems nutso and cant decide to stay his feelings on subject matters. Peter pan

  17. It is a great video. I learned a lot. It is the first time I watched and I am eager to watch the next videos.

  18. thank you Dr. Antonio for this tips.. even risky i will try to do this… i always feel that he's always away from me.. well, it's b'coz we're in a long distance relationship..😔😔😔

  19. I actually did all of this and it turns out my husband was cheating on me that’s why he stopped caring for me . Even throu we were expecting our son . he left me for this other girl

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  21. Actually im in that situation right now and as youve said in the video im starting doing that tips as of the moment. Thank you so much for this video it really helps with my situation a lot.😍😍😍

  22. Boy do I wish I’d seen this a year ago. My ex has been f’ng with my head back and forth hot and cold getting close and then pulling completely away. He is moving a few hundred miles away very soon. I don’t think there’s any steps that can help me now. He’s gonna be gone and I won’t be able to do anything. He is my tru blue soul mate, I’ve know since the first week we were together. I’m dying inside thinking he is leaving without me.

  23. Thank you again for another great video. I watch all of them. Your advice is always on the mark. Was kind of feeling this way in my relationship so I have backed off not only did he text me today but called tonight. ❤

  24. I accidentely said i love you a bit early it just slipped out accidentely to my crush and he's backed away suddenely I'm worried now what should i do ?

  25. Thank you Sir Antonio Borello that I've learned a lot from your blog,but what if he discourage about me and he refuse of our relationship?

  26. Also when I say I have plans , when he does want to hang out he says he feels left and that I don't want to hang out

  27. you girls realise that we have the same advice for men. Exactly the same advice! If a man does this and also woman does this then what will be the result? I'm just wondering… Also these videos are public everyone can watch them, men and women!

  28. I love him so much he avoids me so much I committed to suicide for him he did not text me or at least call me I want to make him cry for me at do i do iam 20 he always lies with me he won't respond to my calls and my msgss when ever he want a relationship with me he texts me he he calls me

  29. By doing these will he think that im gonna leave him or move on without him? He tells me the same too , he says don’t miss me, go out have fun….what am I suppose to do

  30. Mine is the opposite. When i don't text, he doesn't text other and when i complain, he blames me for the silent. What can i really do?it's like am the one doing everything to make the relationship work.

  31. My bf is not calling me I saw some pictures of him with another girl and he told me that he had some unavoidable circumstances..but now he can't explain the situation he will explain when we will meet.i sometime ignore his calls take my own time own day out with my friends and not notify him in details,still he is not msging me not even call me once when I asked about it he told me that he is busy.what should I do?

  32. What if he has a bunch of kids at home that he has to plan childcare for if he wants to go out or he seems to include you with family activities – with kids and extended family? Not much opportunity for 1 to 1?

  33. This is the same thing happeniy with me i tried the things like i stopped complaining but within few days i got so irritated that i again brought up the topic nd he was so frustrated even told me to think like there is no man in ur life

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