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I did tell my Mom on Mother’s Day and now I am going through this. It’s horrible.
I am truly sorry for your loss! I was told I would never have children. We went through over 15 years of trying and had 9 miscarriages (10 babies, one set of twins) before we were finally blessed with our miracle baby boy. When we tried for more children unfortunately I lost another set of twins on Mothers Day, so I truly understand and feel your pain. The three pieces of advice I can give you is Please stay strong, Don't ever give up hope and the last and most important is to relax, get on with life, because when you are at your most relaxed strange (actually wonderful) things can happen.
There's often a reason why the body rejects the embryo, and a reason you can't get pregnant, and keep miscarrying, people shouldn't go against their bodies and force a pregnancy, as complications and a wide array of handicaps become largely possible. There are many children and babies who are in foster care and waiting to be adopted. Like I said, I've had family who have suffered through the same things you are, and friends, and I'm not unsympathetic to your disappointment, but your body is giving you these signals for a reason. Best of luck to you in whatever you decide, and sorry for your loss…
Prayers for strength and healing.
Oh girl my heart breaks. My journey to having children started out very much the same. 2 misscarages . (I named them Rebbecca and Jeffery)this was back in the 1980's. I was the first one that I knew that had ever had ever lost a baby. People looked at us like we were bad people. There was a lot of whispering behind our backs. It was very painful. Wondering Lord what did we do wrong. I ended up having 2 D&C's because my body would not give them up. I fact I ended up with a 3 D&C because the 2 no one was difficult. Stayed in hospital for a week or so just getting better. I am 51 yrs old now. I had 2 more miscarriages but I do have 2 wonderful children (Cody & Maggie) who are grown adults now. With the other 2 miscarriages I had D&C 's as well. I named them( Laura and Poly) . My live children know about their brother and sisters. I didn't really know their sex but it was important to me to name them. They were real to me. The moment I would hear the words : " your pregnant: dreams for that child would start whether I like it or not". I light candles for them at Christmas. The thought of them never go away. My grandma passed away first then my mother- law. I know now they are being well taken care of till I get there to be with them. Don't you ever doubt for one second girl. You are a mother. You have had a rough go of it. You have had to let your child go before its time. But Gods angels are there taking great care of it. I love you, there is so much more to my story. But just cling to each other. You feel the loss but so does hubby I have learned over the years. People can say hurtful things or don't say anything. I have learned to give them grace. They are not educated on the subject so it comes out wrong. I pray for peace in you soul. Showering of love for the 2 of you. And wisdom.
i to miscarried on father day 36years ago i still went on to have a healthy child so i know it will happen to you your love and faith in god will help you all the way
I just had a missed miscarriage with my first pregnancy (that I know of.. I suppose I may have had chemical pregnancies in the past). Our baby measured 6 weeks but should have been 8. I’m so sorry you had the excitement and then severe disappointment of a miscarriage. I think it’s always better to wait until you’re 5-7 days late before testing to avoid this awful hurt. ❤️
To add to my comment below,How do you deal with the jealousy and envy? I find myself unable to cope with the anger and fury that bellows out of me whenever I see a pregnant woman. I literally have to leave the area or I'll freak out [not at her, but in general, crying and stuff]. I've gotten over crying when I see a baby, but the anger and crying when I see a pregnant woman is driving me MAD.
[This is my boyfriend's account…but I'm posting on this video because you need to know you're not alone, love!]
Firstly, I cannot tell you how sorry I am for your losses. I will keep you in my prayers and thoughts, hoping you have your rainbow baby soon…We lost our baby last month, August 04, 2017. My last period was May 18, 2017, so I was almost two and a half months pregnant…with a blighted ovum. Two and a half months reaching all these milestones on my apps, thinking of how big my baby was growing…But it wasn't.I passed the tissue early morning August 4, 2017.The tissue was about the size of my fist. It was mind-numbingly painful…I crouched on the floor in incredible pain. It was unbearable. My body had gone on like it was two months pregnant, with all the makings of gestational sack, placenta, and no baby…the sack was clear 😮I was doing the nursery when I started bleeding…20 hours in emergency, waiting and waiting…then a week and a half of thinking I had a dead baby in my womb..No medication, no D&C, passed it naturally.. My heart is destroyed over this…I carried this child, we wanted this child with all our hearts, my family, my boyfriend's family, we were all so excited. We told his parents the day I started bleeding…Ugh.So. When I passed the baby, we buried the remains with my father in the graveyard. Dad passed away 6 months ago. Still dealing with that too.I'm so sorry that you're in this pain. I wish there was some kind of special something someone could say to ease the anguish in your heart. You don't deserve this. You're so strong, and I know you don't want to have to be strong, you just want your baby in your arms..but this is our reality for the time being. I wish you love, support, and all the baby dust possible.I've cried every day this week, can't handle anything, just inconsolable. And that's my right. My baby was taken from me. And yours was too, love…….Never say sorry for crying, that is your right to express grief. You have every right to cry.
I'm so sorry for both your losses 🙁 I found out I had a blighted ovum this month I chose to take the pill and have a managed miscarriage in hospital it was the hardest thing I have ever been through physically and emotionally 🙁
So sorry for your loss, but if you want a baby you will have a baby, speak it into existence everyday and watch what happens. I constantly spoke that i wanted 4boys and 1 girl, and i got exactly that, your precious baby is on the way!!!
I know I am a couple months late but I just had to comment. You are such a strong and beautiful woman. This took so much courage to post. I appreciate your faith and your boldness to admit that you were mad at God. I just discovered your channel so I haven't seen more recent videos but I will be praying for your sweet family.
I am so sorry for your loss…. I was going through my first miscarriage during this Mother's Day as well. I am still so heartbroken. Hoping and praying for our Rainbow soon. Love and prayers sent your way for a beautiful rainbow baby too!! 💙💚💜
I am sorry- you are very brave to tell your story- I know it wasn't easy- I will pray for you.
I am so sorry you have to go through this again. I will keep you and David in my prayers. My doctor told me at age 17 that I would have a hard time conceiving which we did at the beginning. However, I started seeing a fertility specialist who diagnosed me as hypothyroid. Make sure they test your thyroid. I was in the normal but higher normal range and after they started me on Synthroid, I started having regular periods and was able to conceive. Now after 15 years and two kids, I still have regular periods.
my condolences….you will become pregnant when least expected. God knows and its ok to be angry and hurt and sad. Losing a child is very very difficult make sure to talk with your husband and hold on to each other it will happen never give up hope.
Will be praying for you… my daughter, 27, is going through the same thing you did the first pregnancy. about 6/7 weeks along.. it wasn't. planned pregnancy but she was so excited. That quickly changed yesterday when she began to bleed… She goes back Saturday to have more bloodwork and another ultrasound. It is heartbreaking! I thank you for yiur videos.. I just watched both of them… it let me know things I didn't know but also how to understand how she is feeling. God hasn't forgotten or forsaken you.. He uses all things for His Glory. He has a plan for you. I know from experience it's hard when you are trying and trying.. that happened with my second daughter.. but I never had the pain of a miscarriage… so I thank you for doing your videos to educate me in how I can best be there for my daughter. Hugs and Love to you both! Prayers definitely going up!!
I'm so sorry. I do understand the heartache. My husband and I lost our son on Mother's Day 9 years ago. I was 7 months. 7 years later we had our daughter.. Mother's day weekend. I will keep y'all in my thoughts. It is hard. There are days I still cry, but it will be ok. Take care of yourself.
i had my miscarriage on mothers day too. here i am having a mc while family members texted,posted on my wall. called to congratulate me for my first mothers day. but little did they knw i was losing my angel. sorry for ur loss💜
My heart hurts so much for you and David. Sending prayers and love to you.🌈
Praying for you! My heart just shatters for you and your husband.
Thank you so much for sharing, Maureen. Your honesty and pain brought tears to my eyes tonight. Praying for you both. 💙
I too had a miscarriage on Mother's day weekend, and although I do have children, I completely feel the same way you do about Mother's Day, and that weekend now.
Sending you so so so much love and positive thoughts for you.
U r so brave for telling your story. God bless you!!! you are so sweet and it will happen, all in God's time….Just know you are so strong for telling this story…..god bless u and your husband……I pray you find some things out and continue this journey with happiness and Joy…..
I am praying for your family, and for your comfort……This is so heartbreaking…..I have had a miscarriage before and I know how hard it is…… I had the same….chemical pregnancy…..I will continue to pray for you hon <3
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