25 Replies to “Miscarriage/Stillborn at 20 Weeks PART 3 of 7: The Day After Delivering my S”

  1. I went into labor and gave natural birth to my beautiful daughter Madison Rey Vasquez at 20 weeks on May 23rd, 2019. Just five days ago. They placed her in my arms, she took one breathe and moved her arm towards me and passed away. It was the hardest and the most painful day of my life, physically, emotionally, and mentally. I still wake up each morning thinking she is still in my tummy, only to realize she is not. It's been the hardest days of my and my fiance's lives. I just wanted to take the time to say I'm so very sorry for you loss and thank you for sharing your story.

  2. I know this pain all too well. I lost my baby boy 11 days ago at 19 weeks and 1 day to non-immune hydrops. We still don’t know what caused it, but I have an appointment tomorrow with the high risk doctor to see the results from the amniocentesis.

    I am so so so sorry

  3. my Aunt lost her baby in week 32 and delivered 2 days later, I was waiting so long to meet him, i almost felt like it was my fault, i was the most excited to see him, the baby's father didn't even care and no-one else really wanted him except for me and my Aunt, i was lonely, devastated and deffinitly guilty, evrything twisted, it's been about a year now and we are doing better, i hope you are to, thank you for sharing your story, lots of love to you my dear.

  4. I’m so sorry. I just miscarried yesterday morning. Losing a child is the hardest thing you’ll ever experience.

  5. I lost my baby too November 12 2017 and may 7 2018 I don’t know how to start life again but then i dont want to quit having a baby iloveyou

  6. Please don't blame yourself. It's what I just went through in March,my baby was born still birth. 😭 hugs momma

  7. I feel your pain I started bleeding at 16 weeks terribly I cried sooo hard and started to pray and asked God to save my baby if he wills . If not I will accept it . The bleeding stopped an hour later when I went to the hospital they couldn’t understand where the bleeding was coming from and the baby still had a heart beat . May God heal your heart

  8. I'm crying right with you. I would have had a nephew in less than 3 weeks but unfortunately he was born sleeping at 21 weeks, two days before Christmas Eve. It's extremely hard and I'm trying to find closure but that's even harder. Hugs mama.

  9. It's 430 right now and I'm feeling you… oh honey.. I want to name my first born Kadyn, that's what brought me here

  10. I'm so sorry this happened to you, miscarriage, although a bit different, is still death, and you are grieving. You never knew the baby, but the pain is still there and stil real. I have never been through this, but I know what grief is like, and it's hard and never really goes away. It does get better, but the memories and the pain doesn't leave. I just want to say that please do not blame yourself for this, this doesn't mean that this was or wasn't supposed to happen, sometimes these things just happen, and it's awful, but…..life is unpredictable. None of this was your fault, you took care of yourself, and aside from that there isn't anything more you can do. You would have been a great mother to him, and i'm sure he would have loved you and your family very much. Take as much time as you need to grieve, cry when you need to cry, and the best thing you can do is talk to someone about this, to your friends, family, etc, just take time for yourself. Perhaps even getting a pet would help, of course there is no replacing the little guy, but, giving a loving home to an animal in his name may bring some peace. You do not have to do this, it is of course your choice, but I hope that things go well for you, and where you are in life now is a better place and you aren't suffering. I wish you all the best.

  11. I am so sorry for your loss I lost my baby at 12 wks went in for an ultrasound and to hear those words " I'm sorry ur baby doesn't have a heartbeat" I broke down my baby had a neural tube defect at conception the neural tube didn't close all the way so the brain and spinal cord didn't form properly it's called anencephaly I cried so much I had a d and c done that same day I had a miscarriage before in 2007 at 8 wks I clotted and bleed everything out I didn't want to go thru that so I had the d and c done it broke my heart to wake up and realize ur baby is no longer their I slept a total of 9 hrs that whole weekend I still can't go near baby clothes I break down I carried my baby's urn with me a few days I was hurt my heart broke for days all I wanted to do was sleep I feel for u I know how bad ur hurt I kept asking myself the what ifs what I should've done I know it too early to tell what I had but I felt it was a girl and I named her Briana Marie!!! God bless u hun I'm so sorry for your loss!!

  12. I'm so sorry you are going through this! 🙁 I lost my baby boy at 23 weeks due to me going into preterm labor so he only lived for 2 minutes out of my womb.. I felt like you. Lonely, sad, guilty, devastated, angry and I just wanted to not live. My comfort was GOD throughout the whole storm! I pray you are doing better now 🙁

  13. im crying with you….i hate that we have this in common… i am so so sorry…. So grateful there are still wonderful people who show emotion, empathy, and sympathy to such situations. (wonderful comment section) you are so strong…. this may sound a lil strange but it's been 19years since we lost our son and we still light a candle on his birthday. It has been good for me. i thank u for this video….

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