Pregnancy and Childbirth | الحمل والولادة

The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, taught us
how to interact with our Lord and how to conduct ourselves
during an important stage of life; [having a child]. The Beloved Prophet’s teaching, peace be upon
him, starts with the very beginning of one’s life. He counselled us, peace and blessings be upon him,
with regards to pregnancy, childbirth, the newborn, and advised the person wanting to have children. He, peace be upon him, advised us in many and
varying narrations to be careful when choosing a
spouse so as to give our children the best stock possible. The Beloved Prophet, peace and blessings be upon
him, ordered us to start by choosing wisely [as spouses]
those who are pious and adherent to the religion. By this important practice, the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings
be upon him, sought from the onset to build a righteous family life. Then, the Prophet, peace and blessings be
upon him, teaches us how to protect our offspring and how to begin the entire process of pregnancy,
childbirth, and nurturing in the correct way. The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, told
us that if we say prior to intimacy with one’s spouse, “O Allah, keep us away from the devil and keep
the devil away from what you bless us with,” we will have offspring whom the devil can never harm. This is an amazing and really great Prophetic practice. It means that if a person remembers Allah and
says this prayer before intimacy with their spouse, then they have essentially given this newborn complete protection from the devil for the remainder of his life. What is a woman’s jihad? Some of the women who were around the Prophet,
peace and blessings be upon him, told one of them –the one that was caring for his son Ibrahim- to go and ask the Prophet [the following. They said:] ”Tell
him that men have gone off with all the reward for jihad,
but what about us women, do we not get anything?” So the Prophet, peace be upon him, told her that the woman
in her pregnancy is engaged in jihad in the path of Allah. The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, also informed women
that due to the suffering, tiredness, hardship or stress they experience
during pregnancy, they receive great reward from Allah. The Prophet informed us, thereby sending a message to all women, that when a woman is in the stages of pregnancy, childbirth, and nursing, she is stationed in a post in the path of
Allah and if she dies, she dies a martyr. The first thing recommended for the woman and
the man to do upon realizing that Allah has blessed
them with conception is to make a good intention. The intention has great impact.. and the Beloved Prophet, peace be upon
him, has made great mention of this fact. Even the Prophets such us our Master
Zechariah when he asked for a child, he said: {“O my Lord! Grant me a progeny from You that is pure.”}
He did not merely pray for progeny, but for progeny that is pure. He wanted his progeny to be pure. Scholars such as Imam Al-Ghazali as well as modern day psychologists
and doctors have said that during the very early stage of pregnancy, the thing that is envisioned in the parents’ mind has great impact on the child that is developing
in the womb during that very hour. So if the person was in remembrance of Allah, the [zygote in the womb] will be pure, protected, and illuminated by the light of the remembrance of Allah. Scholars recommend that a pregnant woman increases her remembrance of Allah as
well as recitation of the Noble Quran so that the light of the Quran and the benefits of remembering Allah, and the blessings of one’s connection with Allah all become woven into the very being of the baby in her womb. Every time the mother feels the baby moving in her belly she should say: May Allah preserve you. May Allah accept you. May Allah protect you from satan. My Lord, protect him from satan. Protect him
from calamities. Make him a righteous person! The father too should pray everyday during the pregnancy and both will see the great result, Allah willing. Allah says: {And I commend her and her offspring
to You for protection from the accursed Satan} If we look at the life of our Beloved Prophet,
peace and blessings be upon him, we find that he was the father of girls. He had four daughters, peace and blessings be upon him. When they Scholars speak about the birth of
Lady Fatima Az-Zahra, peace be upon her, they say that the Prophet, peace be upon
him, had immense joy during her birth. When they informed him that Lady Khadija had given
birth – this was before declaration of the Prophetic Mission- he hurried home, hugged and kissed the girl and said, “O Khadijah, she is a blessed child.” He, peace and blessings be upon him, had
this great joy and excitement for his fourth girl. Allah [swt] says: {He grants to whom He wills
daughters and grants to whom He wills sons.} Allah might grant a person a girl but
this person rejects the favour of Allah as if saying, my Lord I do not want your gift; I do not like your gift. This is an area where people contradict the practice
of the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, by differentiating between boys and girls. The one that is not delighted to have a girl is contradicting
the practice of the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him. We ask Allah to accept us and grant us excellence
in our dealings and grant us knowledge and understanding of the life and practice
of the Prophet, peace be upon him, in our interaction with what Allah bestows upon us. Allah The Exalted says: {Say, (O Muhammad, to mankind):
If ye love Allah, follow me; Allah will love you!}

66 Replies to “Pregnancy and Childbirth | الحمل والولادة”

  1. ليه إنشاء الله غير مرغوب فيه هذي سنة الرسول
    رووووووووووح بس

  2. @Ramadnio
    y3ni hma gaibeen setat bsh3rhom wala lbseen lbs we7sh y3ni!! mawdoo3 3n el 7ml haigeebo meen y3ni!?…w b3den hoa 7aram el set ttl3 fel 7agat di? lw kda maknsh ba2a fe baramg bteegy 3ala eqra2 aw resala bet2dmha setat aw banat beytl3o f baramg l 3mr 5aled aw mostafa 7osny..

  3. هدا من أفضل البرامج التي شاهدتها…..مفيد جدا و معمول بطريقة جد رائعة…….ياريت تتطور كل البرامج العربية الى هدا المستوى…..آمــــــــــــــين.

  4. @1911MDS
    بالرغم أني مش متعود أرد لكن لا أعلم لماذا تهاجمني !!
    فنحن لا نأخذ ديننا من القنوات الفضائية أو من أشخاص !!
    ولكن نأخذه من كتاب الله وسنة نبيه صلى الله عليه وسلم الصحيحة التي تحث على عدم ظهور المرآة أمام الرجال الأجانب

  5. @1911MDS
    وسأكتفي بقول الله تعالى :
    […وَإِذَا سَأَلْتُمُوهُنَّ مَتَاعاً فَاسْأَلُوهُنَّ ((( مِن وَرَاءِ حِجَابٍ ))) ذَلِكُمْ أَطْهَرُ لِقُلُوبِكُمْ وَقُلُوبِهِنَّ…][الأحزاب / 53]
    الله تعالى يحدث المؤمنين ومنهم الصحابة الأطهار بذلك بإنهم إن أرادوا شيئاً من أمهات المؤمنين الأطهار أن يكون ذلك ( مِن وَرَاءِ حِجَابٍ ) لماذا ؟؟ ( ذَلِكُمْ أَطْهَرُ لِقُلُوبِكُمْ وَقُلُوبِهِنَّ ) !!
    فما بالك نحن الذين لا نساوي شيئاً في طهارة وعفة الصحابة وأمهات المؤمنين !!

  6. @1911MDS
    وكما قلت سابقاً هذا عمل ممتاز وأتمنى ان يستمروا فيه وأسأل الله أن يجعله في ميزان حسناتهم ولكن أهم شيء يكون هذا العمل خالص لوجه الله تعالى وأن يكون خالي من المخالفات الشرعية
    شكراً والسلام عليكم

  7. @Ramadnio
    ana mesh bhagmk 3ala fekra…ana bs mst3'rb mn no2tt enk bt2ol "y3eeboh zohor el nsa2"..y3ni ageeb meen wana btklm 3n door el mr2a wel omhat fel biot w kda?!..tb hea qanat eqra2 w resala dol mehs brdo beytfrg 3alehom aganb…w mesh lazm aganb..regala 3'orab mesh 3arfeen meen el stat dol…fahmny ezai y3ni?!

  8. اللهم أرزقنا الذرية الطيبة جميعا يارب العالمين …جزاكم الله خير

  9. @543190
    هداك ربي هذا سؤال تسئله ^^
    قوله تعالى (يهب لمن يشاء اناثا ويهب لمن يشاء الذكور )
    كلهم بركة من الله واذا احسنت اليهم يكونو منفعة لك في الدنيا والاخرة وبالذات البنت سبحان الله تكون جحاب لك من النار بمجرد ماتحسن اليها وتحسن تربيتها وماتسلب حقوقها

  10. @chocobeau10 it basically talks about Islam's view on women during pregnancy and how its considered a very valuable aspect of women's lives and how this role is very much respected and that god rewards them for every little discomfort and pain accompanied with it be it emotional or physical, it also talks about prayers taught by our messenger Mohammad peace be upon him that can be said even before conception and during pregnancy to bless the unborn child and keep it safe from harm

  11. @chocobeau10 the last part talks about how Islam appreciates women and that our prophet PBUH being over whelmed with joy when he had his forth daughter and that what some people do when the feel disgrace or shame when they have a girl preferring having sons instead has nothing to do with Islam in fact its against the teaching of our religion and is considered a protest against god's will

  12. dear fattabiouni, i really enjoy your video. i first watched your video speech in our Malaysian tv channel. i tried searching the internet and find out that you post your video here in you tube. i do not understand arabic and i believe there are many others who really interested in your speech who cannot understand arabic. i really hope you can put english translation into your video. thank you so much for your sharing of knowledge. may Allah bless you and give you all His barakah.
    thank you

  13. يالله مره الفديو ممتاز جزاكم الله خير لايك طبعا بس ابغى معلومات اكثر ايش اسم الشيخ?

  14. ارجوك صاحب المسلسل سلم عند بداية الحلقة افشي السلام كما قال الرسول صلى الله عليه وسلم

  15. بارك الله فيكم وبعملكم الصالح
    اشهد ان لا اله الا الله وان محمدا رسول الله

  16. دمعة عيني اللهم صلي وسلم وارضي عن رسولنا وحبيبنا وشفيعنا محمد يا اشرف الخلق يامن انجيتنا بفضل من الله بالحق اشتقنا اليك يارسول الله ان شاء الله ياربي يجعل من نصيبنا الجنة من دون حساب و لا سابق عداب ويجمعنا مع حبيبينا وصحابة الاخيرين اجمعين امين يارب…ياربي كل زوج محرومين يرزقهم بدرية صالحة والسليمة ان شاء الله

  17. salam alaikom sister 🙂
    can you see the sixth icon in the video? it's called it and choose the language you understand… that's all 🙂
    keep me on your prayers.. 🙂

  18. salam alaikom sister 🙂
    if you mean you can't pregnancy ask your doctor what's the reason.. and ask god to help you and to gives you a child.. and drink zamzam water in intent this.. i ask god to give you a good child..
    salam sister 🙂

  19. هذا مُسلم. والمسلم هو من شهد أن لا إله إلا الله وأن محمدا رسول الله وأقام أركان الإسلام من صلاة وصيام وزكاة وحج لبيت الله لمن استطاع إليه سبيلا. ومن ناحية المعاملة من سلم الناس من لسانه ويده.

  20. الحمد لله على نعمة الاسلام و الله يرزقنا بالذرية الصالحة احنا كذلك بعد ٣شهور يرزقنا الله بالبنت الرابعة و الحمد لله على ما عطانا ادعوا لنا بالتوفيق

  21. اللهم صل وسلم وبارك على سيدنا محمد 
    اللهم صل وسلم وبارك على سيدنا محمد 
    اللهم صل وسلم وبارك على سيدنا محمد 

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