The Reality of Having A Newborn Baby & Being a First Time Mom



mom and dad here your first busy today um Rowan has an appointment today and I have an appointment weird to be here without a baby in my belly monitor downstairs yeah these feet Fifi huh hi hi buddy so it is and I look at this crazy dad did a good job the adventure begins this blanket is absolutely drawing also it's called my pet blankie it's got a penguin on it and then it is the softest it's so soft I'm definitely taking this on the plane with us because if it can get chilly on there like this is one of those blankets that warms you up immediately I know and I do need a blanket yes thank you so much no that's right cute mm-hmm look at this mmm strong like mom we had to change his outfit a stronger bum like my Oh mommy's not a bull moose she know she's a cool dude she's a cool dude it flies around your head so funny it's my hairspray good excuse it's not cold oh look at yep just hang in there her keys get a haircut hey bud yes and that always works by the way do you guys know this outfit from something I do dad's to adjourn the hills are coming to we do you guys see Italy brought this is the gift we got and look at this it's so amazing this blanket it's coming on the plane with us perfect okay soon as we stop for a second he starts making sense we got this son cover instead of a blanket over it you guys told us about this so thank you because we don't know we appreciate the advice and then it doesn't it gives him lots of air because it just yeah just goes around the handles like this so nice gets lots of here but the Sun can't get him just having a little breather right now he's due to eat any time so I try to keep him sleeping till closer to one eats otherwise he's not very happy I feel so tired last night he was up a lot and he was really fussy then he finally went to the washroom I think that was the problem but I'm telling you like having a baby in the sleep is unbelievable like you just don't get sleep so ours just going out to get us some food for supper I think him and I are gonna have broccoli which would be really good and my dad and Betty are gone I will have a little date in between feeding row and changing role and staring at wrong I think it's so important to make time for your husband to like cuz I miss him so much in that case here with me but it's like I just miss like just having time to cuddle and I could still emotional about it like we have the best thing we have this little angel but like your life changes so quickly in such a big way that you know you just need to adjust a bit today we're getting ready for Canada stuff together that we want to take and we've been reading a lot for advice on flying with newborns and everyone says to feed them on takeoff and landing so we'll do that and we have a seat that has a bassinet so that's good and yeah I'm gonna take stuff to Canada like he likes his docket ah I'm gonna take that even though it's huge but they're pretty expensive to buy so I don't want to buy a new one how old do they have to be to cut it out and I have no idea how cutting open your nails wait but he scratches me all the time so my husband is preparing a meal turkeys looking crazy Rowan's have a little nap and me this is a reality of being a new mom I'm not like upset with baby I'm just so sensitive like it's crazy and of course I got talking about my mom and it's like it's never good is it it just sensitive I'm just so sensitive today it's crazy how your emotions your hormones when so everything like what I just thought I would share that because I feel like not a lot of people talk about this side of postpartum so I'm showing you in the vulnerable part I have nothing to cry about all the potatoes I gotta go tonight mom's bathroom literally I'm so excited because I haven't bunnelby at the top but I've been cleared now so this'll be fun in the bathroom cert that we have is that a joke camera just had a bathroom that was for my first time I got to do that he's over here still awake he's not ready for bed yoga Superman we both had our appointments and both are good I move it in Burma that's too fast family's back he just had a little spit up there was a big one so anyways our appointment went really well and the doctor cleared us for flying with him and everything is going really well so that's good tall like his dad cuz his dad is what sixth floor mm-hmm that's right yeah quite a man he turns his toes over like this and that's what his daddy does cuz I always say that it's not you do you both do this I always say like before we had Rowan I'd say two are like you look like a bird like on a branch with his feet wrapped around it and now guess who does it so honey the packing begins oh my god watch mom dear you're so excited good he's gonna come to movies with me because he's yeah I think he likes popcorn yeah so he's a good date don't have to share the pipe just like don't listen to his stories gay it hurts jealous of the attention okay her King Papa's come back to take you come here okay let's treat her Q loves his brother he's like can't this dog away from me no kissing on the mouth we got a gift today you got this from my friends and it's so sweet family where life begins and love never ends and then we got some snack things this is so handy you put snacks in there and then also we got these bath toys and they also work in sand which is so cool so that's a really nice gift you

37 Replies to “The Reality of Having A Newborn Baby & Being a First Time Mom”

  1. Zar things happen for a reason but u have to stop making ur self depressed. Obviously yes it hurts but God gave u a chance to live ur. People don’t ever get married or have kids. CHEER UP BE HAPPY AND REMEMBER U R LUCKY.

  2. hang in there and keep at it. your emotions are being intensified with you thinking about your mom. something that will last forever and need to cope with. <3 i'm sure you'll feel better after visiting your peeps in Canada

  3. Yes!! I remember this outfit from when you made your announcement of your pregnancy. Well, after finding out through the pregnancy test!!!! I noticed right away because In that video you were so glowing and so pretty and so happy!!!!!!

    You are so Blessed!!! 🌷😊

  4. I feel you with the postpartum emotions!! It sucks when u get triggered!! I just had my son last week and it’s hard adjusting after birth and everything ❀️ thinking about you!!

  5. That is the outfit is the same she wore when she told him he was going to be a daddy for the frist time. I love your guys video so much.

  6. My baby is about to me 3months In a couple days ! Let me tell you postpartum is no joke I would get emotional as well at some point I though I was getting postpartum depression! But trust me it will get better and easier!!

  7. Zar you look amazing for having a baby , girl you look awesome. πŸŒΉπŸ™β€οΈπŸ˜˜πŸ€—πŸ§πŸ§πŸ§πŸ§

  8. Hi zar… for first 3 months I literally was sleeping whenever my daughter was sleeping, I left behind house chores I put for myself and her white noise as I wasn't able to snooze fast. When she was awake is when I was doing stuffs around the house i had her in a swing or bouncer and she loved watching me move around I was talking to her so she knows I'm in the house… maybe that might help you a bit. For his nails when he sleeps file them. Sending you love and hugs. Take care of yourself too. ❀

  9. Girl I felt the same way you should read this http://www.newmamaproject.com/i-had-a-baby-and-now-i-miss-my-husband/

  10. I think Rowan looks like his daddy -but every once in a while I see your papa in him. And you’re right, hormones go wild for a while. ❀️

  11. Its normal to be sensitive after pregnancy. And coming to Canada to introduce Rowan to your family is huge also. And to be emotional about your mom is understandable. You know shes proudly watching over you and your family. Have an amazing trip home

  12. πŸ™πŸ»πŸ’—πŸ™πŸ»πŸ’— Sending hugs, love, prayers and kindness…πŸ™πŸ»πŸ’—πŸ™πŸ»πŸ’—

  13. Huge advice , ENJOY this infant stage ! It’s the best ! You’ll later in toddler hood think β€œ
    Wow that was easy β€œ

  14. Zar Ares & His fans are great.
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  15. When you choose to nurse instead of formula milk. You have to stay awake more unfortunately but, its only for the first year then they move onto real milk. πŸ™‚ The nail thing, get Rowan some mittens. They’re great and it’ll stop him from scratching himself aswell πŸ™‚ You’re doing great Zar. Hang in there it honestly gets easier πŸ™‚

  16. I love your top! Its so pretty on you! That is the first time i have seen you interacted with Rowan on camera, he is such a cutie!

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